{"id":8239,"date":"2026-08-15T08:15:53","date_gmt":"2026-08-15T08:15:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/theschoolofwe.com\/?p=8239"},"modified":"2026-08-15T08:16:30","modified_gmt":"2026-08-15T08:16:30","slug":"aquilo-que-podemos-controlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theschoolofwe.com\/pt-pt\/aquilo-que-podemos-controlar\/","title":{"rendered":"Aquilo que podemos controlar"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Numa tarde tranquila, eu e o meu companheiro est\u00e1vamos sentados numa esplanada. A certa altura, levantei-me para ir \u00e0 casa de banho. No ch\u00e3o, encontrei uma nota de cinquenta euros.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apanhei-a e voltei para a mesa, sem saber muito bem o que fazer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Encontrei isto no ch\u00e3o \u2014 disse-lhe, mostrando a nota. \u2014 Talvez deva entreg\u00e1-la \u00e0 empregada, caso algu\u00e9m venha procur\u00e1-la. Mas tamb\u00e9m pode acontecer ela ficar com o dinheiro\u2026 E, se for assim, mais vale ficar eu com ele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O meu companheiro ouviu-me e respondeu com serenidade:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Faz aquilo que sentires que deves fazer. O resto j\u00e1 n\u00e3o podes controlar. A empregada far\u00e1 o que entender, mas o importante \u00e9 aquilo que a tua consci\u00eancia te diz para fazeres.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fiquei a pensar nas suas palavras. Depois, chamei a empregada, expliquei onde encontrara a nota e entreguei-lha. Cerca de dez minutos mais tarde, ela aproximou-se da nossa mesa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Uma senhora acabou de telefonar \u2014 contou-nos. \u2014 Esteve aqui h\u00e1 pouco e queria saber se algu\u00e9m tinha encontrado uma nota de cinquenta euros. 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